You can be having a muuuuuch better time with women.

If you're single and you're feeling lonely, frustrated, or like you're missing out, you can be having a much better time with women.

You love women, you're excited and delighted by them, you want fun, closeness, connection, and sex. But there's a disconnect. You go on first dates that don't lead to second dates, or have relationships that fizzle after a few weeks. Or you settle for comfort and connection, in something that doesn't inspire you or reflect who you know yourself to be.

There's some shame for your love of women. You love them, but too much. It makes you overly deferent, weak, needy; traits which leave you in relationships with women that you're not excited about, while repelling the women you are excited about.

But your love for women can become what it was always meant to be: an avenue of connection. A way to get closer, and have the connection, love, and passion that you're looking for.

I know this journey intimately, because I lived it. I began from a place of loving women desperately, and feeling completely powerless to actually have the relationship i wanted. From there, I went through an amazing developmental journey of discovering how to create connection, lot's of fun sexual and romantic adventures, and now married to an incredible woman in a relationship that works for me. I went from loving women and being tortured about it, to loving women and it lighting up my life.

How?

I did it the hard way. Through trial and error. I went out day and night for years, introducing myself to strangers, going on countless dates, trying to understand how to connect. For a while progress was slow, but there came a day when things really began to change. Women I approached were more open to me, my dates went better, I was able to create beautiful sexual and romantic relationships with women I was attracted to. But I wasn't any better looking than I had been. I wasn't taller, more ripped, richer. I was skinny-fat, with bad skin and a wardrobe that was 100% from H&M. But suddenly something was going well. So what had changed?

My way of being. The thing that had changed was not anything external, it was how I was relating to myself, to the women I was connecting with, and to life. It was how I carried myself. The things I chose to pay attention to. The things I chose to say and ask about. It was in how I FELT, about myself, and about the women I was with.

Not some IDEA of how I felt, but actually a different constellation of FEELINGs. More relaxed, more turned on, more open, more alive, more engaged.

What caused this change?

1. Action. There's no avoiding this. Change doesn't happen just because you decide to be different. Deciding to be different is just the beginning. You must then take action in alignment with the change you want in yourself.

2. Some key insights I came to through the help of mentors. Some of these were very general insights into the nature of connection. And some were incredibly specific to me. The unique ways that I was getting in my own way, that I couldn't see.

3. Feedback from amazing, conscious women. This one was incredibly powerful. I found women who deeply understood themselves and their experience, and were able to give me clear and honest feedback.

You're ready to go on your own journey of developing into a man who attracts and connects with the women he's interested in, not through some canned method, not through gimmicks or manipulation, but through discovering his own artistry, his own unique version of connection. I can guide you through this journey. I've been through it myself, and have worked with hundreds of men on their own journeys, to go from stuck and frustrated with women to lit up, turned on, connected, and grateful.

My unique approach

• Deep inner work - I've been training in the most powerful transformational and relational modalities for the last 18 years. NLP, Circling, Generative trance, and much more. This let's us actually address the root mental and emotional causes of your issues, not just the surface symptoms.

• Practical advice - It's also useful to have some practical tools and approaches for navigating dating: how to approach someone you don't know, how to have dates go really well, how to have an incredible sexual connection. I've been in the field in my own life and supporting other men and have seen or experienced basically every conceivable situation.

• Feedback from incredible women. As well as working one on one with me, I also bring in women for you to practice with. These are women who love men, and have the training to give clear, honest, useful feedback. This is really the secret sauce of the program, and can produce results that might otherwise take years for you to figure out on your own.

At the end of the program, you'll

• Feel relaxed and comfortable around women you're attracted to

• Be able to approach anyone, and expect it to go well

• Create real connection on dates; a connection that both of you can feel in your bodies, not just an idea of connection, or a nice conversation.

Before working with Robbie, I was stuck and angry in a way I couldn’t name. My energy was blocked. I’d see a woman I was attracted to and just walk back to my car, telling myself that I'd actually do something next time. I was waiting for something to fall into my lap instead of creating my own luck. I knew there was an impulse in me that wanted to move, but I didn’t know how to move it.

Robbie helped me move it.

What followed was a sea change. I started approaching women in parks, asking baristas out, stopping women on the street to give them a compliment. U was spontaneous, unscripted, in the moment. It wasn't something I had to psyche myself up for, it was just part of my life. And not once has anyone reacted badly. The worst I've ever got was a polite “no thank you.”

The freedom and flow I found in those conversations carried into the rest of my life beyond just dating, in how I showed up with friends, with colleagues, with other men.

Robbie helped me stop standing in my own way. That shift has stayed with me. 

- David, 37, Colorado

This program is for you if

• You want to deeply transform your relationship with yourself and with women.

• You want more fun, more connection, more love, more great sex.

• You're willing to do the work to develop.

This program is not for you if

• You just want to get laid, and don't care about how you impact the people around you.

• You want tricks, gimmicks, or tools to manipulate women.

• You want a magic bullet that will do the work for you.

The next step is for us to have a conversation to see if this program is right for you. We'll spend an hour getting real about what's getting in your way and what it would take to change it. Whether or not we work together, you'll leave with clarity. Request a call here, and I'll be in touch.